My whole life has been marked by a deep inner search to understand what it is that drives us as human beings. The meaning of being born as a vulnerable being that needs to go on a life’s journey full of challenges and sufferings. All the things that can appear meaningless at first sight, but if you look closer, are full of purpose and miracles. My own vulnerability, challenges and painful experiences have, time after time, guided me into new directions in my life and led me to different therapeutic and spiritual work. Besides the inner work on myself, I have always also wanted to support others on their personal journey. For many decades, I have worked as a therapist both in individual and group settings. In addition, I worked as a leader in a women’s shelter for many years. Discovering the Living Inquiries, which combines all the methods that I have worked with as a therapist, felt like a revelation for me.
As a body therapist, I am very familiar with the connection between the psyche and physical pain, and how difficult it can be to get access to what it is that lies beyond muscular tensions, aches and all kinds of other unexplainable pain. Both experiences from my own life and from my work as a therapist have confirmed that the body never lies.
Simultaneously, it became clear to me that the memory of the body, in addition to the physical sensations, also holds visual pictures and stories. Due to this realization, my inner guide led me to new explorations of the human mind through hypnotherapy.
Since early on, the inner universe has been a great mystery and fascination for me. My education within Milton Ericson’s hypnotherapy opened new doors into this universe and revealed the abundance of pictures, symbols and wisdom that exist under the rational mind. I understood that these were hidden treasures that could be used as a key to solve conflicts, dilemma and recurring challenges. At the same time, it became obvious to me that the way we as human beings are closely interwoven with our families and our family history has a large influence on our personal lives.
We all have trauma, catastrophes, people who have been wronged and broken relationships in our family histories. But in our western world shaped by individualism, we have neglected how this can influence later generations. These wounds do not just stay with the people who made the hurtful experience, but are inherited by the following generations until they are integrated through inner work. For me personally, Bert Hellinger’s Family Constellations shed new light on life themes, which had been passed on in my ancestor generations. With these new insights, I was able to see both my own and others’ challenges in a new light. By seeing our own history in a larger context, it loses some of its focus on “me” and “my person”. Due to my fascination with the heritage of family trauma, I was trained in Family Constellations and do now integrate this perspective in my work with the Living Inquiries.
On my personal journey, I have always been on a spiritual quest. I started with meditation in my twenties and have since then been interested in many different spiritual teachings. But something in me has always searched for a way to reach deeper within myself. To me, the Living Inquiries provide a unique way of guiding you to the core, through exploring pictures, words and body sensations that are here right in this moment. Nothing is added, guided in other directions, avoided or manipulated. Everything that once needed to be covered is now encountered and welcomed. As a consequence, many beliefs and stories about ourselves and others dissolve and we can embark on a journey to more freedom, compassion and love.
If these words resonate with you, I would love to hear from you. We can arrange a first free appointment to see whether this is something for you.